Alyah

My Pet

Cash is my 8-year-old rat terrier who loves babies and kids. He enjoys long walks, cuddles, and seeing family and friends. He is best friends with my nephews and niece.

Hobbies

I am an avid reader, writer, art-lover, and traveler who thrives on music, dancing and documentaries. I find solace, joy and energy being in nature – whether it’s daily walks with my dog, long winding hikes on the trails in Austin or in a far off place, or a swim in a body of water. My child will know and share in these joyful and uplifting experiences with me.

My Family

I come from a tight-knit, loving family. My parents are an extraordinary support system and my biggest champions. They currently live in Plano, a suburb of Dallas. They are the absolute best grandparents. My Mom is one of my best friends. She was a Montessori preschool teacher for more than twenty years. She is the heart of our family. My Dad is one of the funniest people on the planet. He is so optimistic and takes such good care of his entire family.

My older sisters have taught me so much about parenting and provide incredible support to me on a regular basis.

Parenting Philosophy

I think the most important values when raising children are: LOVE, acceptance, understanding, compassion, support and honesty. I will respect my child for who they are and I want him/her to know I will always have their back.

I want my child to feel comfortable talking to me, regardless of the issue. I want my child to know that I would rather that they talk to me – even if they think they will get in trouble – than not because my role is to provide support. I will make it clear to my child what I expect of them, but I want them to know that making mistakes is okay and is part of life.

As a parent, I will strive to be positive, gentle and understanding. I think it’s critically important for your child to feel like they can express themselves and be heard, while focusing on what they are doing right instead of what they are doing wrong. I am a calm person and do well under pressure and I believe (given my experience with my nephews and niece) that this will extend to my parenting.

What Adoption Means to Me

My oldest sister had my first nephew, Zayd, when I was 17. I formed such a special bond with him. It was unlike any other relationship I had ever had, and a brand new kind of love. That feeling of love was compounded when my second sister had her two children. I was in my late twenties and I spent every waking moment when I was not at work with my new nephew, Milat, and niece, Amaya. I was an extra support system to my sister and her husband, like a third parent. I love my nephews and niece more than words can express, and I have wanted for years to have my own child.

I am ready to provide a child with a loving, stable, and accepting home. I want my child to feel supported, heard and free to be their truest self. My heart is open and I am excited for what comes next in my journey to become a parent.