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Pregnant and Considering Adoption?

Pregnant2024-10-15T12:47:42-05:00

No matter what has led you to this point, you’re here because you’re at a crossroads in your life. Maybe you aren’t ready to be a parent. Maybe you’re not sure you are able to provide for a child. Maybe your unplanned pregnancy is the result of a trauma. Either way, you’ve got some big decisions ahead of you.

Adoption may be the best path for you. Or maybe it’s not. Together, we will explore your options and help you process your feelings about your pregnancy and adoption. We’ll provide information, resources and support so you can make informed choices for your future – without pressure or judgment.

We see you. And we’re here to help.

Get answers now. Call or text (512) 270-8415 for help.

No matter what has led you to this point, you’re here because you’re at a crossroads in your life. Maybe you aren’t ready to be a parent. Maybe you’re not sure you are able to provide for a baby. Maybe your unplanned pregnancy is the result of a trauma. Either way, you’ve got some big decisions ahead of you.

Adoption may be the best path for you. Or maybe it’s not. Together, we will explore your options and help you process your feelings about your pregnancy and adoption. We’ll provide information, resources and support so you can make informed choices for your future – without pressure or judgment.

We see you. And we’re here to help.

How to Place Your Baby for Adoption

Want to learn more about the adoption process? Take a step-by-step look at what to expect when you make an adoption plan with Adoption Advocates.

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Adoption FAQs for Expectant Parents

Does it cost to place a baby for adoption?2024-04-05T12:24:35-05:00

No. Adoption Advocates offers all services for expectant parents, including counseling and legal services, free of cost.

As a licensed adoption agency in Texas, we may be able to provide financial assistance for pregnancy-related expenses while you make an adoption plan. Your adoption specialist can discuss your situation with you to see how much assistance you may be eligible for.

Can I place my baby for adoption without the father’s consent?2024-04-25T11:41:01-05:00
Your baby’s biological father also has rights to the child, and those rights will need to be legally terminated. Adoption Advocates can handle all communications with the biological father, so you don’t have to. In some cases, we may not need to contact him at all. Reach out to us to discuss your specific situation so we can help you understand how much involvement, if any, he may need to have in the process.
Some biological fathers like to be involved in the adoption process. Adoption Advocates will also provide him with free counseling and support to help him through this difficult time.
If you are unsure who the baby’s father is, don’t worry. We have had other clients in this situation, and we were still able to help them. We’ll be able to help you, too.
Can I really do this?2024-04-05T12:25:50-05:00

It might be hard to imagine that you could love your baby for nine months and then let him or her be raised by someone else. Many of our birth mothers chose adoption because they wanted to give their babies opportunities that they couldn’t provide themselves. If you decide that adoption is the best choice for your child, you will be able to do it. While there will be feelings of sadness and loss, there will also be feelings of joy, awe and pride in what you have done for your child.

Choosing adoption for your baby is not “giving up”. It is making a difficult and brave decision to do what you feel like is best for your child and your family. With open adoption, you will be in control of the process and be able to make decisions that will allow your child to have the future you want for him or her. It is not an easy choice but we will be with you every step of the way.

What if I’m not sure about adoption yet?2024-04-05T12:40:53-05:00

It’s OK not to be sure about adoption right away. This is a really important decision! Take as much time as you need. Your adoption specialist will discuss all of your options with you — without pressure or judgment. Our goal is to provide support and answers, so that you can make an informed decision.

After speaking to an adoption specialist, you may decide that adoption is not right for you. That’s OK too. If you decide to parent, Adoption Advocates can direct you to resources to provide assistance during your pregnancy and your child’s early years.

What help can Adoption Advocates provide?2024-04-05T12:26:30-05:00

When you work with Adoption Advocates, you have a partner at every step of the adoption journey. Along the way, we will help you with:

  • Exploring your options
  • Learning about the pros and cons of adoption
  • Paying for rent, groceries, maternity clothing and other pregnancy-related expenses
  • Applying for Pregnancy Medicaid
  • Choosing an adoptive family
  • Processing your emotions about your baby and adoption
  • Planning your delivery and hospital stay
  • Counseling for as long as you need it after placement
Can I place my child for adoption if I’ve already delivered or am parenting?2024-04-05T12:24:49-05:00

Adoption Advocates places newborns and children up to three years of age. If you are considering placing an infant you’ve just delivered, or a child up to 3 years old that you are currently parenting, we will be able to help.

The adoption process moves more quickly when the baby has already been born, but you will still have all the same rights and choices as expectant parents. When you reach out to Adoption Advocates, we’ll first want to find out a little more about your situation. If you are still in the hospital, an adoption specialist will plan to visit you to explain the process in more detail. If you’re readym she’ll also provide adoptive family profiles.

If you are already parenting at home, your adoption specialist will first make sure that you and the baby or child are in a safe place and having your basic needs met. Once that has been established, you’ll set up a time to meet, discuss the process and begin making an adoption plan.

Your adoption specialist will also help you explore options that may allow you to continue parenting your child, if that’s what you want. Adoption is a permanent decision, and one that should not be made because of a temporary situation or hardship. No matter where in Texas you live, there are resources that can help you find housing, food, employment and more. You can search for nonprofits providing free or low cost by zip code at FindHelp.org.

ADVICE FROM A BIRTH MOTHER

People will often feel obligated to tell you to do what they feel is right or what you “should” do. Only you know what is right for you, and what’s right for what’s growing inside you.

SARAH D.  |  BIRTH MOTHER

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Learn More About Placing Your Child for Adoption

Get answers now. Call or text (512) 270-8415 for help.

THE NEXT STEP

Not sure about adoption yet? That’s OK! The first step is getting more information and answers to your questions.

Complete the online form to receive our free Guide to Making an Adoption Plan with Adoption Advocates. An adoption specialist will follow up with you to answer any additional questions and – if you’re ready – to schedule a phone call or in-person meeting.

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